How to Declare Independence from Email
Posted by Holly in Free Productivity Tools, Life Tools
This post was written by Leo Babauta. Follow him on Twitter
I’ve declared independence from email.
After more than 15 years of dealing with email, of checking email multiple times a day, of responding over and over throughout the day, of deleting spam and unsubscribing from newsletters and unwanted notices, of filtering out messages and notifications, of deleting those dumb forwarded jokes and chain mails …
I’m done.
It feels so good to say those words! It’s so liberating to break free from my inbox!
I’m done, because email takes up too much of my time. I’m done, because I don’t like being at the mercy of every incoming request, because I would rather spend my free time creating than replying to emails.
I could go much further into explanations, but I think you get the point. I’ll let others argue the point for me — a number of people have talked about and experimented with killing email … here are just a handful:
- Can we kill email?
- How to kill email before it kills you
- Video: One man’s experiment with email independence
- Declaration of Email Independence
- Business email overload
How I Ditched My Email Inbox
I’m actually experimenting with this over the next couple of weeks, phasing out email instead of ditching the inbox immediately. But the transition has already started, and I think by the end of today, I’ll be able to stop checking email entirely, or once a week at most.
Here’s what I’m doing:
1. I’ve set up an autoresponder for my email that explains what I’m doing and how to contact me and for what reasons. I know, I hate autoresponders too, but I’m hoping people will get tired of seeing the autoresponder and stop sending me emails. I’m curious what will happen if someone sends me a vacation autoresponder, and then my autoresponder goes back to them, and theirs goes back to me, and so on for infinity. Anyway, I’ve set up a filter with a few keywords so those who want to advertise or do a few specific things can still get through to my inbox. I’ll discuss those below. (Btw, feel free to test out my autoresponder: email zenhabits (at) gmail dot com.)
2. Twitter will be my main form of communication. I know, not everyone uses Twitter, but the people I communicate with the most are (mostly) on Twitter. What I love about Twitter is that it’s very limited (140 characters), so you have to keep things brief, and also there isn’t the expectation that you’ll respond to every message, as there is in email. Friends can DM me on Twitter for personal communication.
3. For longer conversations, there’s IM or Skype chats. These will be required to be scheduled, and are for friends, interviews or close colleagues only — you’ll have to DM me on Twitter, and we’ll set up a 10-minute chat. I won’t schedule too many of these (like one per day at the most, probably) and again they’ll be limited to 10 minutes. This is much more effective than email for complex discussions.
4. For collaboration, I’ll use Google Docs and/or wikis. I’m looking into whether wikis are necessary or desirable. It might be that I just use Google Docs, which have worked great for me so far. Still, maybe a wiki would be good for holding an entire project together. At any rate, collaborative online software is much more effective for working on a project with others than email is.
5. Friends and family can call me. Especially if they don’t use Twitter. They already do, actually, so email isn’t absolutely necessary. The phone is better for personal communication anyway.
6. A few types of emails will get through for now. My filters allow emails for advertisers, interviews, refunds, and people who want to hire me, to get through to my inbox. I’ll be checking this once in awhile (every 2-3 days), but I’m working on automating these processes via the web — people would get a link to schedule an interview with me, or a page to buy an ad, or do a refund, etc. This will eliminate the need for these emails.
I think this will work, but we’ll see. It’s possible that within a couple of weeks, I’ll return to email. I’m always willing to experiment, to try new things, to find the method of working and living that works best for me.
Will it work for you? Perhaps not. If you get a lot out of using email, don’t stop just because I am. Do what works for you — as for me, I’ll be focusing more on creating, and less on processing.
Frequently Asked Questions
A few questions I’ve been getting so far:
Q: Why so extreme? Why not just filter and check email less often?
A: I’ve tried a number of tactics with email, including extreme filtering. For awhile I set up a special email address for friends and family and close colleagues, and everything else was shunted into a special folder to be read less frequently. It still took up too much of my time. I don’t check email as often as most people, but it was still a chore I have been enjoying less and less. So I decided to try something different.
Q. Why not just get a Virtual Assistant?
A. I actually had one for awhile, and it worked fine, but inevitably there are emails I need to respond to. I’m going to try this and I really think it’ll be easier.
Q. Won’t you lose your connection with your readers?
A. Maybe a little, but to be honest, email hasn’t been my favorite way of connecting with readers for awhile now. I much prefer the comments section here on Zen Habits, as well as Twitter. I love connecting with readers, but there has to be a balance between connecting and creating, and I have to find a way of living that works for me.
Q. I couldn’t do it — it’s required for my business.
A. Possibly, and I’m not saying you should. I really think all businesses could rethink their use of email, and use it less. There are better solutions for collaborating, for scheduling meetings or events, for getting group decisions, for managing group tasks, and so on. But people will do that when they decide email isn’t working for them as it should.
Q. What about friends and family?
A. They know how to get ahold of me. I much prefer the phone as a form of personal communication anyway. Those who want to send me messages can get on Twitter, which they should have done by now anyway, the dorks.
Q. Won’t you lose customers?
A. It’s possible. I really think people who want to get in touch with me will — I’ve provided a way to do that. If that doesn’t work for some people, it’s something I’ll live with. I can’t live my life dictated by trying to find what works for every single person.
Q. Is Twitter really any better than email? Won’t it just be another inbox?
A. I’ve found that I don’t need to check Twitter as often, or spend as long processing it. It’s not an always-connected, always-communicating tool that some people think it is — you can choose when and what to process, and only do it 1-2 times a day if you like, scanning your messages and not necessarily replying unless you feel the need to do so. It will be another inbox, but not as tyrannical as email.
I’m pretty sure there will be other objections, or people scoffing at this, but really, if it works for me, why not do it? And if it doesn’t work, I’ll switch back.
***Live Video Chat with Leo***
In a little more than an hour, at 7 pm EST (on Tue July 29, 2009), I’ll be doing a live video chat with any Zen Habits readers who’d like to join me here: Zen Habits Ustream channel. I’ll be on video and you’ll just be on text chat, or you can just watch if you like. I announced this on Twitter last week, for those who’ll say I didn’t give enough notice.
I’ll be answering any questions you might have — it’s just for fun, and I hope you enjoy it!
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Thank you Leo for this great post! Read the original post: at Killing Email: How and Why I Ditched My Inbox




Normal Joe
30. Jul, 2009
Interesting post. I’m all for forward thinking man and I’ll just say more power to ya! I don’t think there is a once size fits all solution for everyone, you’ve got to do what works best for you and your clients, customers, readers…whatever you call them.
For me, email remains an important part of communication, as I continue to move people to twitter, IM, and other forms of connecting.
But I also deal with a lot of people overseas, leaving them an email and then waking up to a response works well, as they also leave me emails during their “up time” and I get it when I wake up.
good stuff though man, and you made some valid points yo!
Klaus @ TechPatio
31. Jul, 2009
Now, that’s a dude with serious cojones!!
Leo, you have my 100% respect with that project
I would never have thought it possible to do something like – and to be honest, I don’t really want to do it either.
I hope you will keep us updated on your progress, if you decide to skip it all and go back to being a slave of e-mail, or if your life has just become too great without e-mail
Garry
31. Jul, 2009
Interesting . . . I guess to me it all boils down to taking control of one’s life. We are not really doing justice to anyone if we are not looking for ways to function at the top of our game in a way that we feel both graceful and liberated.
When it comes to email, there is definitely a point when it becomes a personal drain, but for most I think it remains a vital link to our larger community.
I applaud him though and agree with Joe, it would be great to get a follow up on down the road.
GARRY
Anna
31. Jul, 2009
I would not get rid of email but I work to continuously refine it and reduce the amount of time-drain without reducing the effectiveness.
For example, in the near future I will be creating a support forum as well as eventually a training program for my clients, because I realize I spend a lot of time answering questions in email, only to have the same or similar questions from the next client. It’s nothing new, the idea of using a forum to answer support questions so that one does not have to answer the same questions over and over. It is a simple matter of knowing when to start applying which tools … and refining from there.
Or even, setting something to handle a specific type of traffic. Once I have created the basic training program for my clients, I will not have to answer the same questions again such as – “how do I write a post” or “what is SEO?” I will just sign them up for my training program, which will not only save time, but save money as well.
I have also gotten more creative with filters and email configurations to consistently improve my email management system.
Like Joe, overseas clients is a definite issue for me. Email is great for that.
I also prefer Email to Skype and phone calls for many types of communications, because I don’t feel so “tied down” to potentially long conversations or specific appointments. I can start an email whenever I want, stop in the middle if I need to, come back to it, etc.
But that’s me. I think what you are doing sounds very smart as long as it works for you. For every person, the optimum solution will be different, depending on their own personal circumstances.
Holly
31. Jul, 2009
Garry I really like the way you put your comment – and agree with looking for “ways to function at the top of our game in a way that we feel both graceful and liberated.” I think it can be tough for some people online to maintain a balance – with emails and other projects. If this works for him – great. I am curious to hear how it turns out and hope I can better balance my email/customer service with my life, family and work as well. It’s a daily thing.
Bill Vlasak
01. Aug, 2009
If all my received e-mail were nice and short maybe I could keep up ,but most are like sales pages.Excerpts,of blog entries,the way Holly does ,are enticement enough to read on.
With 18,000 e-mails gathering dust in my inboxes even just skimming to find certain senders and mass deleting others has become a nearly unmanageable daily chore.Naturally I miss some that I shouldn’t have deleted.Speed reading by inbox skimming has become disheartening, always looking for those special good news ones concerning site traffic and sales.Oh well,until that happens everything must remain as a time consuming hobby.Too bad ,though ,that I sometimes miss posts by certain favourite bloggers.
Concerning Twitter; with their 2000 follow limit I haven’t been able to follow anyone new until my followers list catches up to more than 2000..
Holly
03. Aug, 2009
Hi Bill. I agree about what you wrote and have had similar experiences with my emails and lack of managing skills. I am still trying to balance it all out and hopefully can catch up with them and improve at handling and automating some, while still being able to be personal and write back to many impt ones.
Irish Tom
03. Aug, 2009
An interesting topic and certainly holds a challenge.
I have seperate email addresses for family and close friends and don’t use it except for that. I am also finding the constant repetition of “sales” emails are easy to handle as I just delete them. In my humble opinion, if you bombard me more than once a week, your gone!.
A friend of mine tried a little experiment last year and he recons it is working. He changes his email address every three months and sends an advisory to everyone on his list of his new email address. He says he looses about 30/40% of annoying emails each time he does it.
Anyway, hope Leo keeps us updated with his progress.
Cheers
Tom